The May 21st SCONY party was a big success and well attended by new people. For the mountain weekend events I usually get an equal number of men and women. This last Saturday was the first time for a party in the city I had equal numbers.
During the weekend I got into a conversation with a new person about her first adult spanking and I was sort of surprised at her story. Some men just don’t understand that what satisfies a guy’s needs isn’t even close to what women usually really want, even if the ladies never say anything. I get the feeling that some spanking groups are so dominated by a male perspective that women take what they can get and believe that’s the way it’s played out all over in the community.
If you are a female bottom I would like to know what your first spanking was like. Was it what you expected? Did the top make any effort to make it special? Was there a little drama involved or any privacy? Or was it more a combination of silly slaps, laughing, other people talking to the top or you, more slaps and/or much discussion about ‘hit her harder’.
In any case did you enjoy it? In time have you gotten the scene you wanted?